The Perfect Guy

There cannot be a crisis next week. My schedule is already full.

- Henry Kissinger

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I know some of you people are probably waiting for Miss MGS Part 2. Perhaps by now, most of you already know the results of this [AARRRGGGHHH~] competition. Anyway, my Miss MGS experience will be out soon.

I got tagged by Kelly this time.

1. The tag victim have to come up with 8 different points about his/her perfect lover. [right...]

2. Have to mention the gender of his/her perfect lover. [HAHAHAHA]

3. Tag 8 other victims to join this game and leave a comment in their blog. [which I will not.]

4. If you are tagged the second time, there is no need to do this again.

5. Have fun doing it.

Okay, so here goes.

Perfect lover: GUY

8 different points:

1. At least 10cm taller than me.

HAHAHAHA. [I still want my guy to be taller than me even when I step into my heels wert, right? LOL]

2. Intelligent, wise, funny and witty.

[The four are related to each other so it's counted as one alright?] If he isn’t either any of them, then it’d be boring don’t you think? How can he make me smile right?

3. He’s a Christian.

Huge problems can emerge if he isn’t because even if he is one there’s already enough differences to tango with.

4. He is not afraid of frogs, roaches, crawlies and insects.

Can you imagine if the both of us are in a room and a frog comes in and we’re both scared of frogs? Then WHO’S GOING TO GET RID OF THAT FREAKING FROG HUH HUH HUH?

5. He doesn’t control me neither does he let me control him. He does what he likes. He is his own unique person.

Can you imagine if my guy’s a control freak? I’ll feel like a pet. Neither will I like it if I control him. I’ll feel like I’m dating a pet. I’d like him to be himself. I’d like him to be bold and daring. [Just not too bold and daring la 'cause anything in excess is bad]

6. He can speak fluent Cantonese and perhaps Mandarin.

Because I can’t. HAHAHAHA. Yes, I’m a total banana.

I remember when my dad asked me, “What race are you?”

I replied, “English.”

I need someone to cover my weak points.

7. He cares and he is faithful. He appreciates me and treats me right.

I obviously want him to care for me. I want a guy who understands me or at least, tries to understand me. He must be faithful to me. I’d like him to take the relationship seriously and respect me.

8. He is different.

I’d want a guy who can think out of the ordinary. [Ordinary would be candlelight dinner, cliche lines et cetera.] I’d want something more original.

[I'm sorry, I just can't stop myself from going on. It's pretty fun. ]

9. He makes me feel needed and I must need him as well.

Well, this is what makes the relationship meaningful.

10. He inspires me.

I’d really love a guy like that! Haha.

11. He is spontaneous.

Spontaneous is always interesting.

12. He knows how to dress well.

Would you want a guy who wears a yellow shirt and a pair of purple pants together with a green belt?

13. He is willing to make sacrifices for me and allow me to do the same for him.

Can you imagine if for example I don’t like watching horror movies and he really really likes it and every time we go to the cinema, we’ve been watching horror movies because I sacrifice for him. Then for once, I ask that we go for a comedy and he refuses? SHISH right? Then again it could be the other extreme- The Messianic Man, which is rare but not what I want.

14. He likes me for who I am.

This way, I’d be comfortable around him. I can just be myself and enjoy it.
15. He is secure, matured and open.

Insecurity could kill a relationship real fast. Maturity and openness will encourage better communication.

16. I want him to be able to trust me and I, able to trust him.

Trust is one of the most important principles in a relationship okay? Do you want a guy who is constantly worried that you’re going to cheat on him? My guess would be no.

17. He is not a bum.

Beware of bums. They are serious problems.

18. He is honest.

I don’t want a liar. Truth is an expectation, not an exception.

19. He is responsible.

Who doesn’t want a responsible guy? What if we get married then one day he goes shopping with our baby, he leaves the baby in the shopping mall? Cannot right?

20. He comes straight to me when facing problems.

I would hate it to be the next one or even worse, the last to find out.
21. He can cook.

It’s not that I can’t but it’d be better if he can as well. This is a preference.

22. Non-smoker and not a drug addict.

Bad for health la. Definitely no drugs.

23. He can tell when I’m sad and he shows concern.

I don’t want a blur guy that knows nothing till I say something. Like “Hey dear I’m sad” and he says, “Really? Never noticed.” :S

24. He isn’t perfect.

No explanation for that. Just certain that he will be like that.

Sorry no Miss MGS but here’s Ms. Janna’s Mr. Not So Perfect.

Ooops. Sorry, I got carried away.

~ by jannawong on November 3, 2007.